extindex: preliminary --reindex support
--reindex allows us to catch missed and stale messages due to
-extindex vs -index races prior to commit
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("extsearchidx: enforce -index before -extindex").
We'll also rely on reindex to internally deal with v1/v2 inbox
removals and partial-unindexing of messages which are only
removed from one inbox out of many.
This reindex design is completely different than how normal
v1/v2 inbox reindex operates due to extindex having multiple
histories to work with. Instead of scanning git history, this
relies exclusively on comparing over.sqlite3 contents between
the v1/v2 inboxes and the extindex.
Changes to Xapian behavior also get picked up, now. Xapian indexing
is handled by workers with minimal IPC to the parent process.
This results in more read I/O but fewer writes when dealing
with cross-posted messages.
Changes to $smsg->populate and --rethread still need further
work.