nntp: lazily allocate and stash rbuf

nntp: lazily allocate and stash rbuf

Allocating a per-client buffer up front is unnecessary and
wastes a hash slot.  For the majority of (non-malicious)
clients, we won't need to store rbuf in a long-lived object
associated with a client socket at all.

This saves around 10M on 64-bit with 20K connected-but-idle
clients.