lei: relax rules for "new" in Maildir

lei: relax rules for "new" in Maildir

mbsync and offlineimap both use ":2," suffixes for filenames in
"new/", however my interpretation of the Maildir spec at
<https://cr.yp.to/proto/maildir.html> is that ":2," is only for
files in "cur/".  My interpretation also matches that of
doveecot, but we'll allow what mbsync and offlineimap do given
their popularity.