qspawn: retry sysread when parsing headers, too

qspawn: retry sysread when parsing headers, too

We need to ensure the BIN_DETECT (8000 byte) check in
ViewVCS can be handled properly when sending giant
files.  Otherwise, EPOLLET won't notify us, again,
and responses can get stuck.

While we're at it, bump up the read-size up to 4096
bytes so we make fewer trips to the kernel.